End it completely, or end it as you know it choosing happiness courage creativity freedom god relationships

When something in your life isn't working, you have some options:

  1. Suffer in silence
  2. Try to fix it
  3. End it completely
  4. End it as you know it

Suffering in silence is never a good idea. No one deserves that, and nothing good comes of it in the long run. It might feel like the easiest path for no...

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Some people skydive for fun courage fear freedom god

For some people, free-falling through the sky is a major phobia. 

For others, it's a genuine thrill.

The difference? 

  1. Story
  2. Equipment and preparation
  3. Support


Telling yourself that free-falling through the sky (period) equals certain death will surely lead to phobia -- with good reason! Free-fa...

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A squirrel ate our internet god

About a month ago, we had an unexpected internet outage. 

The line wasn't buried completely, and it got clipped by the lawnmower.

Then we had a temporary line that ended up getting chewed through by a bushy-tailed friend (true story). 

Then they came and buried the line but didn't activate the connecti...

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Yielding fear god personal growth

I've been thinking a lot about "yielding" this week, because I flipped open to a scripture that talked about the joy that comes with yielding our hearts to God.

In driving, we yield in certain situations to allow another vehicle the right of way. We slow down or even stop while they have their turn. ...

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Consent choosing happiness courage enough freedom god peace well-being

I watched an Instagram reel tonight of a woman expressing some very strong opinions about text messaging. She questioned why she feels guilty and apologizes for not texting back right away, when she never gave consent to be available at all hours of the day.

Her question made me think... "Huh. What e...

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"You've stopped quitting." courage family fear freedom god

Sunday, July 13, marked 15 years since I first started my business. I had been working in a position that I had outgrown, and I was so afraid to be a "quitter." 

My dad played a big role in helping me finally take the leap. He had heard me talk about this big decision, and he knew what I really wante...

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Practicing misery or practicing joy choosing happiness courage freedom joy well-being

A wise coach (who happens to be my uncle) shared a lesson with me yesterday that his dad taught him back in his teen years: "We don't have to practice misery." The example he gave was, "When you hit your thumb with a hammer, you feel miserable. You don't have to keep hitting your thumb."

In other wor...

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Something bigger courage personal growth potential

Sometimes "something bigger" looks like going all in on your dreams; 

Sometimes it looks like scaling back to make room for the essentials. 

Sometimes it looks like having a tough conversation;

Sometimes it looks like pausing to enjoy a sunset.

"Something bigger" looks different for each of us, at each ...

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It's probably not as bad as you think courage fear god well-being

We had a few very hot days this week at the Ironroad house. The downstairs A/C unit stopped working, and the outside temperatures were in the upper 90's. Not a happy time.

I knew we needed to call the repair company, but I dreaded the news we'd receive after the diagnostic. In my mind, we were lookin...

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Start with mismatched corners personal growth potential

I was writing yesterday morning when I heard our little girl squeal with delight from the other room. 

"Ah! I DID it!!"

She ran into the room, waving a folded piece of paper. She had successfully folded it in half, with the corners matching exactly. 

A couple weeks ago, she wanted to make a card for a ...

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Anger is heavy

Anger is heavy and expensive. It costs us energy, joy, and connection. In other words, it costs us freedom.

When someone offends or hurts us, it's normal to feel it, as a core human emotion. Ignoring or burying it is unnecessary, and can turn toxic later on, so it's important to process it in a healt...

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Toddler steps choosing happiness courage enough god joy personal growth

I've written about baby steps before... how they're meant to be small and wobbly, and that's a beautiful thing. But today I have some different kind of steps on my mind, which are just beyond the baby ones. For this post, I'm thinking about toddler steps.

This topic was inspired by an adorable little...

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